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You are a senior living sales professional. Say that again for the people in the back – you are a senior living sales professional.
You are not a tour guide or someone who is good with seniors.
You are a well studied, crafted, and presented communication specialist, student of human behaviour and understanding, capable of building genuine trust, emphasizing the ability to guide and support seniors and their families through the decisions of housing and care within a longevity plan.
No matter what definition you seek of “professional” you will note that ethical standards and behaviour are always addressed. No where is that more evident than when we apply the adjective to senior living sales.
From the moment the connection is made, particularly when it reaches human-to-human, it requires confidence, caring, intelligence and capacity. That achievement must endure throughout the entire length of sale including the process of objections.
The average length of sale for an independent living level of service within the senior living industry is two hundred days, while the median is 55.
That statistic is a story onto itself. What this tells us is that while half of all Prospects who present themselves at the doors of a senior living community are ready, or needy, of the product almost immediately, the other half will take a long time to put the move together. That time might be measured in years instead of days.
Translation? Sales professionals are going to need a strategy that goes well beyond a tour and a brochure keeping them present, genuine, and valued by multiple different families for the next 200+ days.
Ready is not a date on the calendar
Virtually no one arrives at the doorsteps of a senior living community ready to move in. Ready is not a date on the calendar, rather it is the process of the sale itself.
Hint - the objections are the process.
Objections are the process of moving through the uneasiness and fear of learning about the product, envisioning themselves and a lifestyle within the community, seeing firsthand the life that others are living and grappling with the reality of theirs.
I’m not ready yet is simply surfacing the uneasiness and this is literally the sale.
Is there sales skill involved? Absolutely.
Are their communication tactics that professionals deploy to be effective with their guidance? Unequivocally yes!
Skills that professionals master
In senior living, relationship-based selling emphasizes building trust and understanding with families, viewing them as partners in finding the right fit for their loved ones. This approach focuses on establishing genuine connections, listening actively to their needs and concerns, and showing empathy.
Key aspects of relationship-based selling in senior living:
· Building trust and rapport:
Families are entrusting you with the care of their loved ones, so building trust is paramount. This involves being genuine, dependable, and demonstrating a genuine interest in their well-being.
· Understanding the family's story and needs:
Instead of immediately pitching features, focus on understanding the family's situation, the Prospect’s individual needs, and their concerns. Active listening and empathy are crucial.
· Empathy and emotional intelligence:
Recognize and acknowledge the emotional challenges Prospects and families face when working through the process. Show empathy and understanding to build a stronger connection.
· Focus on long-term relationships:
Relationship selling aims to build lasting connections that extend beyond the initial visits, fostering loyalty and repeat business. Time means something completely different to the sales professional and the Prospect. Rarely does a month-end, quarterly or incentive offer deadline have any impact on the Prospect.
· Personalized approach:
Tailor your communication and approach to each individual and family's unique circumstances and preferences. A senior living flex is all about being able to present a community’s unique value proposition linked to a personal trait or lifestyle value of a Prospect.
In relationship-based selling, overcoming objections involves building strong connections and addressing concerns with empathy and tailored solutions. By actively listening, understanding the root cause of objections, and providing evidence-based responses, sales professionals can build trust and confidence, leading to more successful outcomes.
Key Strategies for Overcoming Objections in Relationship-Based Selling:
· Active Listening and Understanding:
Sales professionals actively listen to customer concerns, ask clarifying questions, and ensure they fully understand the root cause of objections. This helps to avoid making assumptions and provides a foundation for addressing the issue effectively.
· Empathy and Acknowledgment:
Recognizing that objections are often rooted in fear or uncertainty, it is crucial to validate the Prospect's concerns and demonstrate empathy. This builds trust and rapport.
· Anticipating Objections:
By anticipating and preparing for common readiness objections, sales professionals can proactively address concerns and alleviate fears before they hijack the process.
· Providing Tailored Solutions:
Develop solutions that directly address the customer's specific objections and needs. This may involve offering experiences or trials, connecting Prospects to Residents with comparable stories or backgrounds, and highlighting unique benefits.
· Follow-up and Pleasant Persistence:
After each visit or interaction, it is important to follow up with the Prospect or influential family members, reiterate the value proposition, and encourage them to take a next step. The pleasant and persistent nudge forward is what I refer to as “The steel hand in a velvet glove.”
· Leveraging Social Proof:
Sharing testimonials, real stories of other families you have worked with in similar circumstances, and other forms of social proof can help to build credibility and overcome skepticism. Link Residents and Prospects together for lunches or even just a coffee chat to create connection.
· A Network of Experts:
At some point within the sales cycle the shift will occur from making the decision to making the move. For seniors and their families, the task of moving is a burden so heavy it can be the cause of complete indecision. To put together a move everyone needs support, and your network of professionals must be at the ready to assist. Partner with Prospects by bringing forward a team of experts that will do all the heavy lifting.
As a relationship-based sales professional in senior living, your role transcends transactions—you're a trusted guide through one of life’s emotional transitions. Objections are not roadblocks; they are invitations to listen more deeply, respond more thoughtfully, and walk alongside each Prospect and their family with empathy and strength. “I’m not ready yet” is not a rejection—it is an opportunity to ask better questions, build trust, demonstrate value, and stay meaningfully connected.
This week, choose one family you have been working with and reframe their objection as an open door. Reach out with empathy, offer a tailored next step, or connect them to someone in your community who can make the journey feel less daunting. Keep showing up as the professional they did not know they needed—but are so grateful to have. Because in this business, persistence is not pushy when it’s rooted in professionalism.
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